Adoption Myths

Adoption is a deeply personal and lifechanging decision that can bring immense joy to both children in need of families and the adoptive parents who open their hearts and homes. Unfortunately, there are many myths and misconceptions surrounding adoption that can cloud people’s understanding of the adoption process.

Adoption Myth: Adopted children are ‘troubled’.

Fact: Children who are available for adoption come from a wide range of backgrounds, including those who have experienced trauma or adversity. However, it is crucial to understand that a child’s past does not define their future. With appropriate support, love, and stability, adopted children can thrive and lead fulfilling lives. Just like biological children, adopted children have individual strengths, interests, and potential for growth.

Adoption Myth: Adoptive parents cannot bond as strongly with their adopted child compared to biological parents.

Fact: Love knows no boundaries, and the bond between adoptive parents and their children is just as strong and genuine as that of biological parents. The attachment and bond between parent and child develop over time through nurture, support, and shared experiences. Biological connection does not determine the depth of love and connection a family share.

Adoption Myth: Adoption is only an option for couples who cannot have biological children.

Fact: Adoption is a choice made by individuals and couples for numerous reasons. While infertility may be a motivating factor for some, many individuals and couples choose adoption as their first option for building or expanding their family. Adoption is a positive and loving choice, allowing families to grow through compassion and unconditional love.

Adoption Myth: It is impossible to find a child to adopt.

Fact: There are countless children across the UK in need of permanent, loving families. Adoption agencies, social services, and private adoption professionals such as Jigsaw Adoption work tirelessly to match children with suitable adoptive parents. While the process may require patience, dedication, and cooperation, the possibility of adoption is very real and achievable for many families.

Adoption Myth: Adoption is too expensive and time-consuming.

Fact: While adoption can involve costs, it is essential to dispel the misconception that it is prohibitively expensive. Jigsaw Adoption agency is a non-profit, independent organisation that requires no service fee. We want to dispel the myth that private adoption agencies are an expensive route, and we aim to remove the financial barrier that can be associated with adoption costs.

By separating fact from fiction, we can debunk common adoption myths and foster a better understanding of the realities of adoption. Adoption is a personal decision that can transform the lives of both children and parents, and it is essential to support and promote accurate information about adoption.

Jigsaw Adoption agency is the leading private adoption agency in the UK. With many of our team members being adoptive parents, we understand the anxieties and fears that these common misconceptions can have on those considering adoption. This gives us a deeper understanding so that we can offer a compassionate ear to help dispel any adoption myths that may be troubling you.

To begin building your family through adoption, fill out our preliminary interest form and a team member will get back to you as soon as possible.